Play with Who?

In my life I have always been on the edge of every edge. Only here in the S/m community have I ever felt safe and respected. I cherish this community for allowing me to be myself whatever that happens to be at the moment.

At the moment you say…yes at the moment. For we are beings in transition at all times, to stop is to be stagnant is to be like a puddle of muck or quicksand. NONONO. I say, we are always learning and changing. And I think it important to experiment and grow to find our place in this world.

S/m has allowed me to find myself and be the most I can be in all areas of my life. People in this community are very “aware”…that alone is a turn-on to me!

S/m relationships are so different. It is not about the person…it is about what we are doing. I suppose that is the beauty of our community. It is not focused on the people it is about what we do. That leaves us free to be ourselves!!! To be anything and anyone we want to be. We can live out any fantasy we agree to. If everyone involved is agreed and wants to do the scene…then negotiation really begins.
And…my fellow dykes…a fantasy to beat a man can be realized and the guy will enjoy it too!!! There is a lot of fun to be had. I will not limit myself from having fun.